Congrats Travis and Taylor!!!!

Picture this: My husband, Johnny, and I are lounging on the couch, half-watching the Kelce Brothers Podcast (aka New Heights)—WITH Taylor Swift as a guest. Cue instant side-eye between Johnny and me. Immediately diving into suspicions (is there really something going on?) suddenly felt like they were rocking pop-cultural gospel. Because if the hushed rumors are true, and Taylor and Travis were headed down the aisle—well, we were READY for it.

We debated; were they, or weren’t they? We definitely didn’t get our answer that night…

But….

Imagine our “Surprise” when on August 26, 2025, Taylor Swift made it Instagram official: the world saw the romantic garden proposal shot and read the caption “Your English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married.”

Yep, THIS announcement.

Photos showed them wrapped in lush florals and greenery, with Taylor in a striped Ralph Lauren dress and sporting a radiant, custom-designed Old Mine Brilliant Cut diamond ring by Kindred Lubeck of Artifex Fine Jewelry . The post almost instantly broke the internet—with fans dissecting every Easter egg (13-themed gestures included) and that massive square-cut diamond that made jaws drop.

So yes, Caity and Johnny’s couchside speculations weren’t just relatable—they were on point.

Our Little Moment: Congress Street Bridge, Austin

This whole love-story, proposal-vibes rollercoaster made my Hubs and I rewind to our own moment. It happened on Congress Street Bridge in Austin, where Johnny knelt down and asked emphatically, “Will you marry me?” —cosmically perfect for us. Not perfect in that Instagram-polished, choreographed style—but perfect in that authentically you kind of way.

That’s the real beauty behind proposals: sometimes those unfiltered, just-right moments feel right. And that’s where this blog goes from celeb speculations to real, messy, heartfelt honesty.

Sweet and Small Proposals: Why We <3 Them

Let’s get real—small and intimate proposals are magic for so many reasons:

Purely personal — It’s just you two, undistracted by flashy props or big audiences.
Authentic — There’s room for laughter, maybe a drop of tears, or a goofy mishap—it’s all yours.
No pressure — No expectations, no performance, no “did it look editorial?” stress. Just moment, memory, connection.

That “authentic” feeling? That’s real love. A proposal that’s heartfelt, cozy, true. It doesn’t have to trend. It just has to be you.

Big and Bold Proposals: Why They Rock (and Sometimes Don’t)

Now—let’s flip to the other side of the coin. Because yes, there’s something electrifying about over-the-top, grand public proposals too.

The Perks

Unforgettable flair — Imagine popping the question surrounded by fireworks, surprise guests, or your favorite crowd. It’s cinematic.
Shared celebration — Everyone you love is there for the moment. It’s a communal joyfest.
Story material — This becomes the memory everyone tells at parties for years to come.

The Downside

Pressure central — Everything’s on display. One wrong beat feels very amplified.
No do-overs — It’s showtime. No room for “oops, let me try again.”
Can feel performative — If you’re not into theatrics, the spotlight can overshadow sincerity.

Caity @ The Bohde Collective: Your Vibe, Your Proposal

Let’s circle back. For us, for Taylor + Travis—there’s no one-size-fits-all. Whether it’s:

Two people on a bridge at sunset
A sweet pair in front of a Lighthouse ;-)
A lush garden where one sets a stunning floral trap
A private hotel suite
Or a flashmob mid-concert

Do the proposal that feels like you.

Authenticity > aesthetics. Real connection > trending aesthetics.

And if you’re dreaming up “something special,” I’d love to help plan a proposal that hits the heart, whatever your vibe may be. Whether you're leaning into intimate or bold, I’m here to craft something unforgettable—just ask.

Dedicated to Love: Big or Small, Public or Private—Make It Yours

At The Bohde Collective, Caity’s philosophy is simple:
"Do the proposal that’s right for YOU."

No comparisons. No “should’ve.” Just your story, your feels, your moment!

Until Next time!
-Caity

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